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ETS ACADEMY · LESSON 14

Relational Boundaries & Discernment

Teaching points

  • Love does not require giving everyone unrestricted access. Boundaries protect faithful responsibilities while leaving room for counsel, mutual care, and accountability.
  • Jesus withdraws to pray and continues His mission rather than letting every demand set His direction. Do not use relational discernment to surround yourself only with people who agree with you.
  • Read the assigned passages in context using your NLT Bible. Work at your own pace; coaching and community discussion are optional.

Read in Scripture

  • Mark 1:35–39
  • John 2:23–25
  • Proverbs 4:23

Reflect

  • Which boundary would protect care rather than simply avoid discomfort?
  • What does the passage teach, and how would you apply it in a real or fictional situation?

Put it into practice

  • Practice a specific boundary while remaining open to wise correction.
  • Review what you learned before attempting the module quiz. Passing checks understanding, not overall spiritual maturity.

Based on Daniel Zarabia’s Reflections on Maturity and the Government of the Soul, as represented in the revised curriculum supplied by Reno. ETS adaptation and assessment exercises prepared with AI assistance; not represented as Zarabia’s original wording or endorsement. Rudyard Kipling’s If is a supporting illustration; Scripture is primary. Sources and credits →